Boundary and Conflict Strain Scale (IGBC-S)

1. I feel respected in my role as a decision-maker for my own family (spouse/children).

2. I often feel obligated to explain my personal choices (e.g., spending, social time) to my in-law/mother-in-law.

3. I have separate, private areas in the home where I can retreat without intrusion.

4. When conflict arises, we can discuss the issue calmly and respectfully.

5. I frequently receive unsolicited criticism or advice regarding my household tasks or parenting.

6. I often worry about upsetting or disappointing my in-law/mother-in-law.

7. My mood is significantly affected by the mood of my in-law/mother-in-law.

8. My value in the household seems tied to whether I am working outside the home or managing the household.